Birth Mother Stories
Everything to Me by Mark Schultz
This song gets me through every day knowing that I am doing what is best for my baby. I just pray that one day when he is old enough, he knows that I placed him for adoption not because I didn’t want him, but because I knew it was the best option for him. He will always be my baby. (:
Gift of Love
One of the greatest gifts we can give to our children, is our unconditional love. That goes for all parents; birth, foster, or adoptive. StandUpGirl is a champion for the gift of adoption and would like to ask you to join us in celebrating the support and resources we...
I Lived on Parker Avenue
Video Credits: Joie De Vivre Media and executive producer, Benjamin Clapper, present “I Lived on Parker Ave.” as its first short documentary.
Emilie’s Story
On October 24, 2015 my life changed forever. A night of partying with friends turned into a night I was taken advantage of. Little did I know that 280 miles away, on the same night of October 24th, a woman was in a nursery praying for a birth mom and her child. That...
Championing for the Misunderstood Birth Mother
As a birth mom I have my own story and it is unique. It can often be easy to romanticize the ideal adoption scenario; a young girl gets pregnant and loves the baby so much that she decides to give it a better home and life than she can offer. But there is much more...
For Me, This Was OK!
“A mother is she who can take the place of all others, but whose place no one else can take!” Love, Brian Above is a quote sent to me by my son. A son I have always loved, from the day he was conceived. He has grown to be such a successful and handsome man. His...
Her Story
I have shared this story many times; every time the sharing is different. In the beginning, I shared the story because my heart was broken - I needed to be heard, to have my pain acknowledged, to hear support for a decision that made me feel as though I had been...
What You Make of It
At the end of my son’s placement with his adoptive family, we laughed and hugged as we parted ways. The tears had dried and were replaced with hope and joy for the bright future ahead. I knew I would be able to look back on this day as a perfectly happy experience....
Grateful for an open Adoption
True love for your child is knowing what is best for them and giving it to them, no matter the sacrifice to you. I heard that somewhere – on TV, or in a book maybe. I didn’t ever think I could love someone that much – so much that I would do anything for them,...
God Showed Me the Way
I started dating my boyfriend when I was fifteen years old. When I turned sixteen, I was pregnant. Some people say they didn''t know they were pregnant or they couldn''t tell, but I knew the moment it happened. I was terrified. I mean I was only sixteen, and what...